In 1961 I met Mary Soo for the first time and was also fortunate to meet her daughter. She called every one of her people son, daughter, sister, or brother but this lady was Mary Soo's right hand person. Little did I know at the time that I was in the presence of a legend in the US Navy and a hero to the locals. Here is a photo of her crew coming out to paint USS Mahan DLG-11 and USS King DLG-10 when we were moored in Hong Kong Harbor in 1964. I was just finishing my tour on Mahan. There are more photos of King and Mahan on the Mahan website. I found this particular photo on Google
http://www.ussmahan.org/DLG-11%20photos.htm There is a bit more there under (Mary Soo Hong Kong Ship Side Painters).
The first time I met her in person it was hard to believe that such a tiny frail little old lady was so powerful and could possibly be the head of such a large family. All the orphans she took in and all the orphanages she supported were all part of her family. She was a charmer but she was also hard line when it came to bargaining and business. I was on liberty in Hong Kong for about the third or fourth time and having been mesmerized by some of the beauties that were painting our ship, the USS Picking DD-685, I absolutely had to go ashore and check things out. I was not disappointed when I met one of the "side painters" at her place which was a bar on the water front about a mile from the China Fleet Club.
The young lady introduced me to her mother (Mary Soo) and I found myself being charmed by an older woman who was just different. I had a few drinks, got something to eat, and we talked about things to do and see and how wonderful Hong Kong was and she had different girls bring out a number of her keepsakes including pictures with dignitaries and probably every US Navy skipper that ever visited there. The girls all told me that I should visit her home but I never got the opportunity although we became good friends and the pictures I saw, were of a true mansion fit for a Queen. The next day, the same young lady contacted me on the ship and invited me back to see her mother and bring cigarettes (sound familiar)? For some reason I did go back and for the price of a couple meals, a few drinks, cigarettes (of course) and just being respectful, I found that I had a long time friend. Later on I was determined to find someone in Hong Kong and Mary Soo was instrumental in helping me find that person. That is a different story in itself.
I was stationed at the Communications station in Yokosuka, Japan from late 1964 until 1969 and one day I was going out the side door at the end of my watch and I noticed a familiar looking lady across the street kind of staring at me. I crossed the street and it was one of Mary Soo's "daughters" who had married a sailor homeported in Yokosuka. She had seen me several times over a period of a few months and told Mary Soo where I was. Mary Soo told her to contact me and let me know that this young lady was there by herself in case she needed help with anything. When she told me who she was and what Mary Soo had told her I felt like a big brother. We went to the Windjammer Club, had dinner and a couple drinks and I put her in a cab rather than getting in trouble. We did meet several times for dinner when her husband was deployed but I always maintained my cool although it was tough. I eventually met her husband and he was a jerk. I think there are a good number of sailors married to Mary Soo's girls.
In my Navy career, I ended up visiting Hong Kong thirty-three times and it was around 1975 that I saw Mary Soo for the last time. We just lost touch and even Christmas cards stopped coming when I went to Korea. I feel that I am a better man for having met, dined with, and drank with a true legend. I did her several favors over the years and she was always appreciative of that. As I said earlier, she also did me a big time favor in helping me to locate someone that otherwise I was not able to find.
In a large cruise box of pictures in my garage, I did have a hundred or more pictures of Hong Kong including an autographed photo of Mary Soo, some of her girls, and me in Wanchai. When the wife and boys cleaned out boxes several months ago, a lot was thrown away and I am not sure if they tossed photos or not. They claim they kept pictures.
William Holden did a movie about Hong Kong with Nancy Kwan in about 1960 and it was named "The World of Suzie Wong." I saw the old movie on video about ten years ago and boy did that bring back memories. From the time I was 19 to the time I was 42 I spent very little time in the USA by being stationed in the Orient or by being homeported there or even swapping from ship to ship in the early days. I met high ranking Government officials and I drank with the dregs of the earth in some places but I enjoyed every bit of it. Mary Soo was higher than any high ranking Government official. She was the life's blood to hundreds of refugee children and fed them our leftovers.
Mary Soo's paint crew heading to ship to paint the sides in Hong Kong. Contributed by Steve Karolyi. USS Mahan website.